I don’t fucking care if most of my friends have boyfriends/girlfriends and I’m the only one that doesn’t. I really don’t. I don’t need a boyfriend to live. To be quite honest, I think some of my friends are really stupid especially when it comes to their boyfriends. They ditch their friends, they cry when the guy does something idiotic, which was expected from him anyway, and then blame me for not saving them from wasting their time.
I don’t really understand that logic.
Personally, I don’t care about your love life. I really don’t. I don’t need too. I’m not your mother, and even if I’m your friend you’re not going to listen to me. No one ever listens to me.
If you really want me to tell you the truth…here’s some tips to follow when having a boyfriend/girlfriend
-Don’t ditch your friends all the time to hang out with your boyfriend. Sure, some of the times it’s okay but all? That’s just plain rude. If it’s conflicting with a birthday of a long time best friend, talk it out with the friend. They’ll end up understanding and most likely will let you leave early for a special occasion but don’t just flat out ditch.
-If they break up with you once, you can get back together. If it happens twice, don’t bother.It wasn’t meant to be.
-If they break up with you because they truly believe you’re better than them and it’s constantly happening…then yes, you are better and might as well give up then.
-Don’t flirt with tons of guys at once. You’ll get the rep of a slut and you won’t want that right?
-Don’t lead on two guys then complain you don’t know what to do. Please, you knew you were leading them on. You should know what to do then.
-Don’t blame your friends for them breaking up with you. Most likely it’s either your or their fault. Not ours.
-If you start to dislike your friend because she’s being honest with you about your relationship and you call her out on being jealous…Most likely we aren’t. We can see what’s going on because we’re not the ones ‘in love’. Don’t get mad at us for telling you the truth. The truth will hurt sometimes but you need to hear it.
-Lastly, don’t give up everything you believe in for a guy. Most likely it won’t last anyway.
I really do hate myself. Not because I have a boyfriend, but being the best friend of boy-crazed girls is really tiring. Can’t someone at least listen to me once? Maybe you won’t end up confused and upset then.
I don’t need a boyfriend. I don’t believe in that love crap now anyways. The day I fall in love is the day hell freezes over.